How to Buy a House for the First Time

Updated: October 28, 2024

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Buying your first home is a major milestone, often filled with excitement, anticipation and a fair share of stress. Before taking the leap into homeownership, ensure you're financially and mentally ready by assessing whether homeownership fits your long-term goals and if you're prepared for the responsibilities that come with it.

From determining your readiness to navigating the buying process — finding the ideal property, securing financing and closing the deal — understanding each step can help you make a confident, informed homebuying decision.

Key Takeaways on Buying Your First Home

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Ensure your credit score is strong, your savings can cover the down payment and closing costs, and you're prepared for ongoing expenses like maintenance and property taxes.

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Take the time to shop around for the best mortgage. Comparing rates and terms from multiple lenders will help you secure the most favorable deal and save money over the life of your loan.

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Never skip a home inspection or appraisal — they help you identify potential issues and determine the property's true value, giving you room to negotiate repairs or adjust the purchase price if necessary.

How to Prepare for Homeownership

Ensure you’re financially ready and assess whether homeownership aligns with your long-term goals. Plan for the upfront and ongoing costs.

Build Your Credit and Savings

Homeownership is a big commitment that takes some time to prepare for. Ensure you have a strong credit score and enough savings to cover the down payment, closing costs and move-in expenses.

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    Good Credit Score

    At least 620 is typically needed for a conventional mortgage, though some lenders may expect higher. FHA loans often accept scores as low as 580. Improving your credit score can help you secure better interest rates and loan terms.

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    Saving for a Down Payment

    Down payments generally range from 3% to 20% of the home's price. For example, on a $250,000 home, a 5% down payment would be $12,500. In addition, you'll need to budget for closing costs, which can add 2% to 6% of the loan amount.

Determine Your Budget

Before searching for your first home, ensure you know how much you can afford. A good guideline is the 28/38 rule, which is:

  • Your mortgage payment should not exceed 28% of your gross monthly income.
  • Your total debt payments (including your mortgage) should stay under 36% of your monthly earnings.

Although this rule isn't set in stone, it's a good starting point to help you set a budget that's manageable in the long term. You can also use tools like home affordability calculators that can give you an estimate based on factors like your income, debt, down payment and credit score.

Decide on the Right Property

Choosing the right home means balancing your current lifestyle, budget and future needs. Instead of making quick decisions, break the process down and weigh your options carefully.

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    List your must-haves

    Identify your non-negotiables, like the number of bedrooms and bathrooms or whether you need a yard. Think about your lifestyle: Do you prefer a single-family home or would a condo with shared spaces fit your needs?

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    Think about long-term plans

    Is this a starter home or a long-term residence? If you plan to grow your family, look for homes with extra space. Visualize your life in five to ten years — will the home still meet your needs?

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    Factor in location

    The right location can impact your daily life. Consider proximity to schools, parks, shops and your commute. Walk around potential neighborhoods and check commute times during peak hours. Use online tools like Google Maps or crime data websites to research local amenities and safety.

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    Consider fixer-uppers

    A fixer-upper might be a good deal if you're willing to do home renovations. Look into renovation loans that combine the cost of the home and repairs. Get quotes for necessary work before making an offer and talk to your lender about renovation loans.

Shop for Financing Options

Compare mortgage rates, terms and programs to find the best deal. Get pre-approved to strengthen your buying position.

Explore Mortgage Options

When buying a home, choosing the right mortgage helps secure the best terms for your budget. Several types of mortgages are available, each with its own down payment and eligibility requirements. Here are the main options to consider:

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Buyers with strong credit who can afford at least a 3% down payment. PMI is required if the down payment is less than 20%.

Buyers with lower credit scores who need a down payment as low as 3.5%.

Military members, veterans and eligible spouses who want no down payment and favorable terms.

Buyers in rural or suburban areas who meet specific income and location requirements, with no down payment needed.

Buyers in high-cost areas with excellent credit and the ability to make a larger down payment.

You also have options when it comes to the length and interest rate variability of the mortgage:

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    Fixed-Rate Mortgages

    The most common option is a 30-year fixed-rate mortgage, which offers a consistent interest rate and predictable monthly payments over 30 years. A 15-year fixed-rate mortgage typically offers a lower interest rate but higher monthly payments.

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    Adjustable-Rate Mortgages (ARMs)

    If you plan to stay in your home for a few years, an ARM might be an option. ARMs often start with a lower fixed interest rate, but that rate can adjust (and potentially increase) over time.

Compare Mortgage Terms

Compare mortgage lenders to secure the best terms. Request loan estimates from at least three lenders to evaluate interest rates, fees and term options. Some lenders offer discount points — upfront fees that reduce your interest rate. Use an online mortgage calculator to see how different terms and rates impact your total payment.

Check First-Time Homebuyer Programs

Many states, cities and counties offer programs to help first-time home buyers. These programs often combine low-interest loans with down payment and closing cost assistance, making home ownership more affordable. If you meet certain income requirements, you may be eligible for grants or forgivable loans that don't need to be repaid.

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    Down Payment Assistance

    Some programs offer grants or low-interest loans to cover part or all of your down payment, significantly reducing the upfront costs of buying a home. For instance, the FHA Down Payment Assistance Program provides grants of up to 3.5% of the home's price, making it possible to buy a $300,000 home with just $10,500 down.

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    Closing Cost Assistance

    Many programs offer financial assistance for closing costs in addition to down payment help. For example, the HomeReady Program from Fannie Mae can cover up to 3% of the home's price, helping buyers manage these extra expenses.

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    Mortgage Credit Certificates

    Some programs provide tax credits, known as mortgage credit certificates, which reduce federal tax liability based on the interest paid on your mortgage. For example, the Mortgage Credit Certificate Program allows first-time buyers to claim a tax credit of up to 40% of their annual mortgage interest.

Get Pre-Approved

A mortgage pre-approval is a lender's offer to loan you a specific amount under set terms based on your financial information. It shows sellers and real estate agents that you're a serious buyer, giving you an advantage in competitive markets.

When you're ready to shop for a home, apply for pre-approval. Lenders will review your credit, W-2s, pay stubs and bank statements to determine how much you qualify for. You can apply with multiple lenders — banks, credit unions or online lenders — to compare rates. To protect your credit score, submit all applications within a 30- to 45-day window so inquiries count as one hard pull.

Searching for Your New Home

Work with a real estate agent to find homes that meet your needs. Visit properties in person and stay focused on your budget.

Find a Real Estate Agent

A good real estate agent can simplify your homebuying process by finding suitable properties, negotiating offers and guiding you through closing. Start by asking for referrals from recent homebuyers, then interview a few agents to compare their experience with first-time buyers and strategies for finding homes, including off-market properties. In competitive markets, this can be especially valuable. Choose an agent you trust and feel comfortable working with, as they’ll be your advocate throughout the process.

Once you find the right agent, you may need to sign a buyer's agency agreement stating that you'll work exclusively with them. Most agents earn their commission from the home sale, so you have no upfront cost.

Start House Hunting

With your real estate agent, you can explore homes that match your wishlist. While online listings are helpful, visiting homes in person reveals details like the layout, outdoor space and neighborhood feel that you might miss online.

For first-time buyers, the following places are especially helpful when searching for homes:

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    Online Real Estate Platforms

    Websites like Realtor.com and Redfin are user-friendly and allow you to filter by price range, neighborhood and other criteria. These platforms offer easy access to a wide range of listings and are great for first-timers looking to browse homes and get a feel for the market.

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    Local MLS (Multiple Listing Service)

    Your real estate agent can provide access to the MLS, which lists homes before they're available on public platforms. This gives you an edge in competitive markets.

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    Newspaper Ads and Community Boards

    Look in local papers or community bulletin boards for homes that are not listed online.

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    Drive Through Neighborhoods

    Sometimes, homeowners put up "For Sale" signs before listing online. Driving around your target areas can uncover hidden opportunities.

Making the Purchase

Submit an offer and negotiate with the seller based on the inspection and appraisal. Prepare your earnest money deposit.

Make an Offer

In a competitive market, you must act quickly when making an offer. Start by asking your real estate agent for a comparative market analysis to understand what similar homes have sold for. This will help you avoid overbidding or underbidding.

Once your offer is submitted, be ready for a counteroffer. Negotiations are common, and your agent can guide you on adjusting your bid or adding contingencies, like a home inspection.

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If your offer is accepted, you’ll need to provide earnest money — typically 1% to 3% of the purchase price or more in competitive markets. This deposit shows your commitment and is applied to your down payment. Be aware that if you back out for reasons not covered in the contract, you may forfeit the earnest money.

Secure Your Mortgage

After your offer is accepted and you've signed a purchase agreement, it's time to secure your mortgage. You can choose to stick with the lender who pre-approved you for a faster process, but you're not obligated to do so. If you switch lenders, you'll need to provide key documents to complete your loan application:

  • Legal ID and Social Security Number
  • Pay stubs (30 to 60 days)
  • W-2 tax forms (past two years)
  • Proof of additional income (e.g., gift money, alimony)
  • Investment account statements (e.g., IRA, 401(k))
  • Federal and state tax returns (last two years)
  • Debt details (student loans, car loans)
  • Recent bank statements (showing sufficient funds)

As part of the mortgage process, be prepared for additional costs beyond your down payment. Your lender will charge fees associated with processing your mortgage application. These include the application fee, credit report fee, appraisal, title insurance and other costs like escrows and surveys. The lender will itemize these costs in a Good Faith Estimate (GFE) or Loan Estimate, which you'll receive shortly after submitting your loan application. Review this estimate carefully to understand the total costs of your loan.

After submitting your mortgage application, avoid making large purchases, such as buying a car. Any changes in your financial situation could delay or derail your loan approval, as lenders may need to reanalyze your ability to afford the home.

Finalizing the Deal

Review your closing documents, compare them with earlier estimates and ensure all terms are accurate before signing.

Buy Home Insurance

Before closing, your lender will require homeowners insurance, which financially protects your home and belongings against damages or theft. It also includes liability coverage if someone is injured on your property. Ensure your policy covers the cost of rebuilding your home if it’s destroyed.

Shop for the best home insurance rates and policies to get adequate coverage. If your home is in a flood zone, you may need flood insurance. Consider an umbrella policy for additional coverage of other assets, like your car.

Get a Home Inspection

A home inspection is a thorough evaluation of a property’s condition, conducted by a professional inspector before finalizing the sale. They’ll examine key areas like the foundation, electrical systems, plumbing, roofing and appliances to identify potential issues.

The inspection typically happens after your offer is accepted but before the appraisal and closing. You’ll receive a detailed report outlining any defects or safety concerns once it's complete.

Get an Appraisal

A home appraisal happens after the inspection and is required by your lender to assess the property's market value. The appraiser provides an unbiased estimate based on the home’s size, condition and recent sales of comparable properties. This ensures the home’s value aligns with your mortgage loan.

While the inspection checks the home’s condition, the appraisal confirms its value. If the appraisal is lower than expected, you may need to renegotiate with the seller or increase your down payment as a mortgage lender won't lend you more than the house is worth.

Negotiate Terms

Negotiating can help you save money during the homebuying process. You may ask the seller to cover repair costs or reduce the price to account for needed repairs. In some cases, you can also request the seller to pay part of the closing costs, though lenders may limit how much they can contribute.

Your negotiating power depends on the market. In a buyer's market, you may have more leverage to negotiate a lower price or better terms. In a seller's market, where demand is high, negotiations may be more difficult.

Your agent can use the inspection and appraisal reports to negotiate on your behalf, potentially lowering the price based on the home’s condition.

Close the Deal

You're almost a homeowner! The final step is closing on your home purchase. A few days before closing, your lender will send a disclosure outlining key details, including monthly payments, loan terms and closing costs.

At the closing appointment, you'll meet with your agent, the seller's agent and other parties to sign the paperwork, pay closing costs and receive the keys to your new home.

You'll also sign either a HUD-1 settlement statement or a closing disclosure document, both of which itemize the financial details of your loan. Be sure to compare these to the Good Faith Estimate or Loan Estimate you received earlier. If there are discrepancies, ask your lender to clarify and resolve any issues before finalizing.

Move Into Your New Home

Set up utilities, change your address and schedule movers. Plan for safety checks and any needed repairs before settling in.

Prepare for Move-In

With the closing complete, it's time to prepare to move into your new home. This stage involves more than just packing boxes. There are several key tasks to ensure a smooth transition:

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    Set up utilities

    Contact local utility providers to arrange electricity, water, gas, internet and any other essential services before your move-in date.

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    Change your address

    Update your address with the post office, your bank, credit card companies and any other important accounts. Don't forget to notify friends, family and your employer as well.

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    Schedule movers

    If you're hiring a moving service, book them in advance. If you're doing the move yourself, organize transportation and gather packing supplies early.

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    Deep clean and make repairs

    Before moving in, give your new home a thorough cleaning. This is also the perfect time to tackle any minor repairs or upgrades, such as painting.

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    Check for safety

    Enhance your home's safety by changing the locks, testing smoke and carbon monoxide detectors and making any necessary security improvements.

Manage Your Mortgage Payments

Manage your mortgage payments to avoid late fees, credit issues or falling behind on your loan. Here are some key tips to help you stay on track:

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    Set up automatic payments

    Automate payments through your bank or lender to avoid missing due dates and late fees, ensuring your credit stays in good standing.

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    Pay extra when possible

    Make additional payments toward your mortgage if possible. Even small extra payments can help reduce the overall interest paid and shorten your loan term.

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    Monitor your mortgage statement

    Regularly check your mortgage statement to stay updated on your balance, interest rate and any changes to your loan terms.

FAQ: Buying Your First Home

Here are answers to some of the most common concerns first-time homebuyers encounter.

What's the best way to improve my chances of getting a mortgage?

What are the common hidden costs of homeownership?

Can I change my mind after signing a purchase agreement?

How long should I expect the home-buying process to take?

How do I know if I'm ready for homeownership?

About Robyn A. Friedman


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Robyn A. Friedman is a former real estate attorney and award-winning writer who has been covering the real estate and housing industries for more than two decades. Friedman has published over 1,100 articles in print and online publications such as The Wall Street Journal, Unique Homes, NewHomeSource.com, Ocean Drive, the New York Post, Realtor.com, Bankrate.com and HotelNewsNow.com.


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